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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Diane05, Nov 6, 2018.

  1. Jamie92203

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    Well with me I have liked a friend and I told her and it went badly because she is straight. But I think you should tell that friend because it lets them know how you feel and lets the feels slow down a little.
     
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    This friend though doesn't know that I am a lesbian. and sometimes it gets really weird, since my friends know that I do not like being touched so She is like always hugging me.
     
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    Well I would do that as well just to see how they react and to make them cringe but that's off topic. I would write her a letter but write it anonymously.
     
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    I will think about that. I also might think that I have A slight problem I told this one girl that I was a lesbian, and thought she was trustworthy. Today though we were walking to our houses, and talking to her boyfriend when he made a comment about me being a lesbian, and this is not the first time. should I confront her about this?
     
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    Sorry, about all the questions.
     
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    [you should probably let your friend know that your not conftable with her being all touchy feely . You don’t have to tell exactly why you if you’re not comfortable just let her know she needs to respect your personal bubble
     
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    I’m 13 how was your day
     
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    I am 13 as well, my day was pretty good. how about yourself.
     
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    I think you need to confront her about it
     
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    Hey, I can feel your pain about being attracted to one of my friends. Well she technically isn’t my friend but, It’s hard to see your friend talk about someone they like and it hurts. I know this isn’t helping you at all but just want to tell you stick through it and maybe you’ll figure it out. Sadly you might have to give up because they might not feel the same. This is off topic but, I am really jealous that your out to your family and I’m glad they were accepting of who you are.
     
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    thanks coming out to my family was I little difficult but they did not care I have a gay aunt so that made it easier. I am sorry about your friend at the moment I am trying to separate myself from her I heard that can be helpful