Hi everybody, I'm a 24 years old female, and I have been questioning my sexuality since about two years ago, but now I've almost accepted that I might be a lesbian. I started seeing a counselor to help me with my doubts . I hoped she could help me to understand if I was really lesbian or if I just convinced myself of being one, but from the first time she saw me, she said that I have narcissistic traits. In her opinion, I haven't been able to love men because I'm a narcissist and I've only used them as a mirror (because I have this disorder and I need others to have continuous confirms, etc), and I'm so confused about my sexual identity because I don't know who I am due to the disorder.. and she also said that every (straight) woman has dreams of having sex with other women, that is normal, and that she used even to dress male clothes as she was young but she is not a lesbian. I'm quite desperate, I thought I had understood my real preference but now I'm doubting everything even more than before. Do you think it is possible that she has no experience with questioning and is confusing things? Are there on EC some queer narcissist that can help me? Thank you so much!