I'm nonbinary. Specifically, I'm a genderfluid-bigender person who doesn't identify as trans, and my presentation leans heavily toward the butch/masculine side of things. Rarely am I female, which means my name almost never sounds right. Lately I've been really thinking about changing my name, not legally or anything and maybe not offline*, but there are a few hurdles I'm encountering at present: I don't want a male name--which seems like a popular thing for AFAB enbies to do.I'd like to keep two letters from my birth name if possible. But that means my options are limited. Of the so-called neutral options available, most are either too gendered or too out there. And I want a name that...feels normal, I guess, though that can't be the most eloquent way to put things. What I mean is, I want a common name. One that could be anyone's. *Maybe I should've put this first: I'm terrified to even think about a name change, online or off. Amy has been my name for almost 21 years and the female part of me loves it; more than that, the people around me love it too. What if I change it only to realize I screwed up? I'm not sure about changing it. Any suggestions, name and otherwise?