My sister is marrying a Catholic. They are having a GIANT Catholic wedding. I am going to be her maid of honor. In order to have the giant Catholic wedding, my sister is converting to Catholicism, and her baptism was today. My sister isn't homophobic, and her fiance and his family are very nice. But I am feeling very weird about the part where I will be taking part in a ritual of a religion that calls me intrinsically disordered, and whose leaders publicly refer to my potential marriage rights as a threat to world peace, and say that my adopting children would be abusive to them. A religion that is also a vast, wealthy international organization that actively campaigns against my rights. But, you know. She's my sister. So I don't feel like I can say no.