now that every body know that I'm trans are what every it's become little problem with finding decent clothes I've never had this problem before in till now.... well I guess it's because I never really to much care.how can I be trans when I clearly hate every thing about being a boy. why did I say that? oh yea it's all because I was looking online for male new brand clothing all the clothes look ugly. it just give me a headache, just by even looking at them clothes I don't want to fit in to a gender role, why can't I just wear girl clothes and have a sex change? even the male body wash suck. I guess I can say I don't dislike all of male clothing and boy clothes lack with the colors I don't like dark colors. girls have more cute colors then boy's even in their jeans I honestly just feel like boy clothes are boring for some reason. I even was looking around in some area at girl clothes it's not like I fitted the male gender roles any way but, this is not a great thing I'm also this way with shoes girls have more colors in every thing boys are boring. shit I want to wear the pink shoes to the shoes are ether ugly or boring I wonder if therapy can help me stop being trans. for me gender it's not pink or blue I don't even like blue I also want to wear the cute pink skinny jeans I've also came to the terms of realizing that I might have a crossdress fetish I try not to show that side to everybody I like girly things cause it's so many choices for girls then it is for boys and it really suck's I still want to change my body but clothes and everything else I'm really not to sure
Well, I'm a girl and I only wear men's clothing so why can't men be the same? It's so annoying how we box men into the masculine role while women get more expression. And as a trans guy people take you even less seriously. So my suggestion is to find more androgynous clothing for now to start small. If you have a thing for crossdressing, there's nothing wrong with it, It's sadly looked down upon but it doesn't make you less of a man.
Fallingdown^ said it great! Androgynous clothing are a cool idea. I'm GNC (gender non-conforming), as well. I can like some androgynous clothes sometimes (not boy clothes so much, but), and I don't force myself into a 24/7 girly girl box. I'm just me, meaning mostly feminine but if society tells me "You are (or "you're supposed to be") a girl, so you can't do this and that", well, I don't care. You don't have to conform to gender roles to be trans! (*hug*)
well thanks for replying I did not know were to turn to and a lot of stuff have been happening to me lately good and bad I guess I'll try the Androgynous thing
