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My Cheating Boyfriend.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Itisthefear, Dec 30, 2016.

  1. PatrickUK

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    I'm not going to duplicate the good advice that has already been offered, but I do want to highlight this line from your first post back to you:
    Even before he cheated on you there were trust issues and that's probably why you started reading his messages, so I would urge you to really sit and consider if he is the right person to maintain a relationship with. A relationship is nothing without trust and even though it can be patched up after cheating it will never be quite the same -- there will be an enduring 'weak spot'. How do you feel about that?

    If trust was absent from the outset and cheating confirmed your suspicions, are you doing the right thing in taking him back? What do you think?