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My boyfriend found my lesbian porn secret folder...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Beantown, Jan 26, 2014.

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  1. Beantown

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    I'm not sure how my older or younger brother would take it but I don't know if I'm comfortable telling them, I'm probably going to put family last on the coming out list, but yeah I kinda can't wait till uni starts, I want to hurry up and set the foundations already, I hate feeling so bad about my ex but yeah I feel kinda heinous that I want him to feel worse so I wouldn't be the only one who's like moping around also I didn't realize that was you who wrote the coming out story. Your coming out story was the first one I read, I had it bookmarked.
     
    #81 Beantown, Jan 27, 2014
  2. Clay

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    How old is your younger brother? And do you not have anyone you could confide in and trust outside of the EC?

    And, judging from the way you broke up, I don't think you're the only one moping about.

    Also bookmarked? Thanks, I don't really know what to say there, I guess it must have been long if you bookmarked it. I hope you enjoyed reading it.
     
    #82 Clay, Jan 27, 2014
  3. Beantown

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    My younger brother is like 15 and yeah I don't have anyone I could confide in, my ex was probably the closest person I had since all my close friends and I drifted apart after graduation plus I couldn't trust them anyways since they would back stab me as I would to them and yeah your coming out story was the only one I could kinda relate to since it hit home the closest, I usually read it to try and convince myself to come out also I'm sorry if I've monopolized too much of your time.
     
    #83 Beantown, Jan 27, 2014
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    How long have you known your ex? And how long were you together?

    Also hit home the closest? Glad you could relate somewhat.

    And don't worry about my time, I was working this morning and the weather was too bad to do anything afterwards, and I've enjoyed spending my afternoon speaking with you. Though you're in Australia? If so, it must be pretty late there, you basically spent all night speaking to me.
     
    #84 Clay, Jan 27, 2014
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    These things are always hard, you were strong to break up with him. It's good that everyone has been giving you so much good advice here.

    My advice is focusing on yourself and what you need in life to be happy and feel good about yourself, because that is always important for everyone. And you seem like a quite impulsive person, at least based on this thread. Maybe you should try and take some time to think stuff through before making a decision so you know what the consequences might be.

    I recommend therapy for help to deal with everything, I know from experience that it can really help, at least if you get a good therapist. If it doesn't help, try to get another therapist. Some are really good, some are just good and some are not really any help at all.

    I wish you the best though! You seem nice and like a fun person to be around :slight_smile:
     
    #85 sandshoes, Jan 27, 2014
  6. Clay

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    Don't know why you got banned, I'm actually really quite annoyed because I was enjoying speaking with you. I want to contact you, but I can't think of any way to do it now. Hope you read this, RainbowRally, and I hope we find a way to speak again.
     
    #86 Clay, Jan 28, 2014
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    I know i shouldn't have laughed, but that was very clever strategy, i would not have thought of that if i was in your shoes and most likely your bf would have ended up looking like the Stereotypical blushing girl :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: or at least that's how i see it in my head
     
    #87 chivalrous, Jan 28, 2014
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