Okay, so here's the deal; my dad is kind of a jerk on general, but ever since I came out to my parents a little over a year ago (I think), it seems like it's getting worse. I think he's generally verbally and emotionally abusive, but I wouldn't bring him to court, if that makes sense. He yells way too much, shouts profanity at someone (only when he's with us - me, my mom and my brother. Outside, he (mostly) keeps it in, but when we get in the door...), name-calls (prick, bitch, etc.), and other things, and when people tell him to calm down, or call him out on his "abusiveness", he says, "oh would you rather have someone who gets drunk every night and beats you?" As if comparing one type of abuse to another makes sense. Sure. Whatever. Anyways, ever since I came out to my parents, I've constantly heard him mouthing off about me to my mom, thinking I can't hear what he says. Things like, "he wants to be a girl?" and "he's only doing it for attention," still sometimes telling me to "be a man" when I have a huge depressive episode. "Be an adult" sounds better, don't you think? He has this whole misogynistic point of view, even getting mad at my mom if she screws up something whole cooking, as if he could do any better. He NEVER makes dinner, who is he to talk? Like holy crap. He acts like he knows everything, but doesn't know anything, and says everyone else is stupid. He just irks me alot. And rant probably half way done, but my fingers hurt.