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Most stupid/ridiculous questions you've been asked about your orientation?

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  1. HuskyLover

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    Couldn't find a thread like this anywhere else, so my apologies if there's something similar like this around here ^^

    I'm just curious about the most stupid/ridiculous questions you've been asked when it comes to your orientation/sexuality? i.e. when you've come out to someone, etc etc.
     
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    "Oh you're transgender! Just like Ellen!"
    That one was from the dude I sat next to in biology. :eusa_doh:
     
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    This one is not a question but my dad once said, "She thinks she is a man because she is overweight, if she lost weight she will be a girly girl!" I don't even think I'm a man. I'm gender neutral.
     
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    "Oh, so did you change your mind?"
     
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    i was with my sister and every time a random girl was near me she was asking me "how do you feel? are you horny??" god!:bang:
     
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    "So when you say gay, what does that mean for you...?"

    "Do you like girls now or what?"

    "You said you like trans guys too. Does that make you pansexual?"

    "Couldn't you just be a straight girl?"
     
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    "So...are you gay or what?"
     
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    My favorite is always along the lines of "who's the girl in your relationship?" Or "how can you not like [lady parts]?"
     
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    "Your mindset will change"
    "Do you need counselling?"
    "You've never been with anyone so how do you know?"

    AAAAAAAAAAAARGRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH I HATE IT WHEN THEY SAY SHIT LIKE THAT, IT'S SO DAMN FRUSTRATING
     
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    umm..im sure every lesbian gets asked this: "how do u guys have sex?":rolle:
     
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    I've been lucky enough to avoid most of these type of comments thus far. The only one I can think of is "how do you know your not straight if you've never been with a girl before?"

    Which I responded with a "well how many women were you with before you realized you were straight?"
     
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    Tell them it's with magic levitating witchcraft brooms and watch their reaction, hah! 'Course not if you live in one of the more violent areas.

    "What's the point if you can't make a baby?" -Coming from a straight guy who uses protection.
     
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    I haven't actually gotten stupid questions, but I have heard the tired old "no one is really bisexual."
     
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    "You're gay? But you don't even have short hair!" :confused: ...Um, ok?
     
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    On being trans:
    "So how do you have sex?"
    "Your body will never change, even if you try to make it to it will fight you."
    "I've changed your diapers, and hate to break it to you, but you're a girl."

    On being ace:
    "Why wouldn't you want to have sex?"
    "You're missing out on a wonderful part of life."
    Every "when you grow up and have kids/get married..."
    "I've come to the conclusion that asexual does not exist."
     
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    What I go was a surprised 'Do you like girls?!!!'

    ... Coming out about gender... Not going to happen again anytime soon, I'm fucking sick and tired of all that...
     
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    What's that? (Oh nothing. Nothing at all...)

    How do you know you don't like sex if you've never had it? (First, asexuality isn't not liking sex. Second, bye.)

    Oh, so just like a plant? (Plants reproduce sexually, lmao)

    But if you squish on someone, aren't you just being really mean, because you just immediately friendzoned them? (This one really hurt, because it's not like I fucking chose to and I'm not bad because I'm aro, yeah? Also, to hell with your amatanormativity. Why the fuck am I mean just because I don't fall in love with someone?)

    They usually carry the same air of ignorance and the sheer desperation to prove me wrong so.
     
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    "So you would like a guy if he was feminine enough, right?"
     
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    I swear, someone better not ask me, "That means you can be my GBF?"
     
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    I've been lucky enough to avoid these ridiculous questions but I'm not looking forward to the inevitable day when this question will come up.