Hey everyone, i'm new here. I'm trying to figure out if one of my (guy) friends wants to be something more than just a friend. I've never met a guy who's so confortable with touching and hugging each other. When we first met, a couple of years ago, I started to notice weird (to me) behaviours that led me to the conclusion that he was probably gay. For exaple he hugged me very often and those hugs were very long-lasting, sometimes even more than a minute. When we were alone he told me that if he had to marry another guy that would be me. Two months after we met, we went sleeping with other friends all in the same house and he wanted to sleep with me so badly. He asked for a kiss and i gave him one on his forehead like I would do with my little brother, but then he immidiatly kissed me on my mouth, then he hugged me and we fell asleep. We didn't see each other for months after that night, but when we met again he was like a normal friend, although it didn't last long. He started to write "I love you" and to put a lot of hearts in his text, he once asked me if I would kiss him on his mouth when we were alone, he than said he was "joking" when he saw that i was feeling quite unconfortable. He talks a lot about girls though, and he told me he would like to have a girlfriend, and sometimes he would hug and kiss me and then ask me how I would feel if he was to do the same with a girl. His family and friends are really homophobic and he often avoid hugging me if his parents are there or even if we are too close to his house. I have another friend who hugs me quite often and I used to give him a nickname. But when he found out about this nickname he told me it was too cute and that he doesn't want me to call him that way. He was really jealous that I was spending time with another guy, so I asked him if he was in love with me and he told me "I don't know, I don't think so". Sometimes I think that maybe that's just the way he is, but a lot of things he does are very unlikely among guys. What do you think?