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Mind bending confusion/crippling depression

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by whatsneb, Oct 15, 2017.

  1. Neogcd

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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I really don't know, man. You could be anything, maybe you are something that doesn't fit nicely into any existing definition of sexuality.
    Or, maybe you are moving towards self-acceptance of who you really are - gay or bi.

    Well, I wish life is that simple, I wish we all just fit nicely into boxes and we can all pray the confusion away.

    If you are indeed leaning towards man sexually,
    maybe try to indulge yourself in the thought that - dating a dude is not that big a deal.
    Plant the seed in your head, watch if it grows into a tree.
    You are in your 20s, that's a good age to experiment without much mind-numbing consequences.

    Watch some LGBT affirming movies, keep an open mind and try to ignore the guilt or shame.
    Try "Shelter (2007, Trevor Wright & Brad Rowe)" or "Those People (2015, Jonathan Gordon & Jason Ralph)".
    See whether it shifts your continuum a bit.