Lately for the past three or four years things haven’t been the same for me. I suddenly find myself that I don’t fit anywhere on a spectrum. Both extreme ends of it are kind of negative and not supportive. They don’t seem to understand how big a change and what kind of difficulty a person might be going through questioning if he was that or this person. Is there a way to find out and accept one’s self and others. Or how can one know for sure that it isn’t just a phase?