Hey there! So I have masturbated in the past. Recently actually, like within the past few weeks. And I usually watch porn to get there, mostly gay male porn, but I did find a real lesbian couple who makes videos and watch that on occasion. Anyway... I've been craving an orgasm lately, but I don't want to watch porn. I just don't feel any desire to watch any type of porn. I don't have a good imagination or the best attention span, so fantasizing is very difficult for me. Also, I'm worried that I'll fantasize about my ex girlfriend, which is not something I want to do. I'm single now, so it's not like I get my current S.O. to help me out. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do?
Get a toy depending on how old you are. Of you can't do that then just take your time with it and work up to orgasm. It doesn't have to be quick or anything, you can take your time with it and enjoy the whole process.
