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  1. Wrigley490

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    Because I actually kinda want tk
     
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    That's up to you man, it's your experience - I don't mind hearing about it if you want to share though.
     
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    Well, like I said I am starting this one thing at a time until I combine them together. So I got into a sorta sitting/kneeling position. Then I slowly pushed my fingers in, but my muscles didn't try to push them out, so I started moving in and out with them. Now I had an amazing erection by now. Then I got the dildo and pushed it in, slowly moving it in and out, and it felt so amazing. Then I turned on the vibration to full, bent all the way over and used the wall to push the dildo in. I thrusted forward and back on it with the vibration. I orgasmed like 3 times, my butt is still tingling, like the vibrator is still in it. And I'm really horny.
     
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    Any response?
     
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    I'm glad it went well for you man - It's good you found a new way to have fun and enjoyed yourself :slight_smile:
     
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    The only problem is my butt is still tingling like the vibrator is still on and I'm really horny. Like super horny. What should I do?
     
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    Well I've never done that so I'm not sure, but I don't think there's anything that can make the tingling go away except time. You can still try other things without the vibrator if you're still turned on.
     
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    I am like, seriously turned on. Like my normal times 10,000.
     
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    Have you considered finding another person to explore these interests with? It doesn't have to be a guy if you're straight - I'm sure a girl would be willing to explore this with you and then you two could do as much as you wanted together.
     
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    I don't have anyone sadly. I'm working on a relationship, but it's a work in progress. My god I'm so horny right now.
     
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    I hope the relationship ends up happening for you, you seem cool and really open minded, it will be lots of fun once you have another person to experiment with.
     
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    I know, but for now I'm trying to do what I can alone. Do you know of a way to fist?
     
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    Nope - I haven't tried that, I know some girls get really into it but I'm not even sure if I guy can do it since it might not even fit.
     
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    I am trying to see if I can find a way to go deeper with the dildo or help it go in and out faster.
     
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    I'm sure you'll get better at the technique the more you try it, then it'll feel even better.
     
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    Please keep the focus of discussions informational. Graphic is OK as long as it's educational, but the conversation is on the line right now and veering into the direction of overly and gratuitiously graphic discussions that aren't appropriate for a PG+ community.
     
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    Sorry Chip, my bad - I wasn't trying to make it inappropriate but yea I see what you mean, I shouldn't have said some of those things. I'll stop.
     
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    No worries, and I don't think much of anything you've said is over the line, and don't want to discourage you from feeling comfortable talking about sexual stuff. If staff were really concerned, we would have messaged you. :slight_smile:

    The line on this sort of stuff has always been fuzzy, and difficult to define (Sort of like former Chief Justice Potter Stewart talking about porn in one of the Supreme Court decisions: "It's difficult to describe but I know it when I see it")

    EC is very sex positive, and we frequently have discussions about enhancing sexual pleasure, which is fine. The challenge is when people start to get focused on the arousal aspect of the discussion itself, if that makes sense.

    So the staff has been discussing the issue and I posted here more as a general commentary for everyone in the community.
     
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    Another suggestion toward the original problem at hand is to perhaps take a break from masturbating.
     
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