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Married and also involved

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Stuck42, Aug 28, 2017.

  1. Stuck42

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    I really wish I would have told her off..really told her what a narcissistic bully that she is. She knows how much she hurt me and still refuses to care that she did. But guess what? I couldn’t do it. Because I care about her and don’t want to hurt her. How f-ed up is that???? I tell you what ladies...I learned a lot from this and what I DONT want! I know I will never hear from her again..I got really clingy and annoying so I’m sure she is glad to be rid of me lol. Too bad none of you lived in Iowa..I would take you all out for a drink to celebrate me release!!!
     
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    You know what it probably wouldn't have made any difference if you had. One day she will wake up and realise she can't treat people like that, or she won't and she will live a lonely existence. In the meantime you will have moved on and found someone deserving of you and be really happy.
    I will raise my mug of tea in celebration of your release :slight_smile:
     
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    It's important to learn what you want or don't want so it is not all a loss. I think that is a good way to look at it.
     
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    So ladies..guess what?? No...I didn’t hear from “her” thankfully! But..I did get a message from a girl who lives 20mins from me on a dating site I was on. We texted for 3 hours tonight!! She seems amazing. Not sure if it will ever go anywhere or if we will hit it off but ITS A STEP PAST THE PAST!!!
     
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    Yay, definitely a step in the right direction. Fingers crossed.
     
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    I woke up this morning and had a good morning text from this new girl that I was talking to last night! That would have never happened with the previous situation. And I know that it is going to take time to move on but the more I think about how she treated me and how I LET her treat me… I really am just not feeling her anymore!
     
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    Stuck42, sorry you had to go through all of this. I know how hard it is too like someone who doesn't feel like same way you do/isn't available. Hopefully you have learned a lot about yourself.

    Mabel, what was the bisexual support site you were talking about if you don't mind me asking? I've not been able to find any good ones!
     
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    Day 3 of hearing from this girl that I met!! I am not always the one initiating the messages. Shes asking questions about me, showing interest! It feels really good to get the heartbreak from the other one off my mind.. I do still think about her every day but hopefully it subsides. Thanks for all of your encouragement and kind words.
     
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    It will subside it will just take time, one day you will suddenly realise she hasn't crossed your mind for a while. I'm so pleased this other girl seems nice. Such a welcome distraction.
     
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