Not really looking for advice here. Just really wondering if what I feel is common for other gay or bisexual men. I can look at a hundred men and feel no sort of desire at all. Some pretty famous guys that everyone talks about and I can tell they are good looking but I feel nothing. Ive been camping in a surf camp for a couple months. There are all sorts of good looking guys around. But, there is one guy that I am almost ridiculously attracted to. So much so that i almost hurt with longing. The thing is. He looks like I did when I was thirty. Similar build and features. He could also pass for my boyfriends brother. I was never that way with women. I find a wide range of women attractive. But, I can go a year without feeling this about a guy. This made it really easy for me to fool myself about my sexuality. It’s age related too. If a guy looks younger than 25 or so or older than 35 I just cannot summon this sort of desire. I’m assuming this is some sort of learned behavior. But, it’s also convenient that my attractions are so limited. I can be “part time gay”. Anyone else feel this way?