Like dick but not attracted to men

Perhaps a heteroflexible guy with a penis fetish?

 

I'm not trying to be rude but do you think you might be attracted to shemales?

 

FYI, this is actually quite common. Don't beat yourself up (sorry >.<) about it.

As for what you are, you might be bisexual with a preference for women?

 

Well, no on the face but yes on the penis. What have you to say about the rest of it?

 

Hi there and welcome to EC. It isn't weird at all really. Sexual orientation is really a spectrum - not binary. So it is possible to be attracted to both men and women.

Some men find that society conditions them to ignore or deny their same sex attraction. So finding women attractive comes easy - because that's what we're conditioned to do. Finding men attractive is sometimes more difficult - because we're conditioned to think that is bad. Something we shouldn't do.

Many men in heterosexual relationships still like anal penetration.

So there's any number of things that could be going on here with you. You just need to be courageous enough to explore and accepting enough to be positive about it and not judge yourself. Don't think of it as a 'dark corner' but just as a part of you that you might want to experience.

 

heteromantic bisexual also know as heteroflexbile

 

You have a number of great options for this.

One is that you can just ignore guys faces ('cuz they do kinda suck most of the time), and use doggy style position, which I think is super hot anyway.

Second option is that you can be with a lady and enjoy yourself some pegging (anal penetration by strap-on). Some women like this, and a number of straight men do this.

 

Many men find penises attractive. It isn't weird at all. I think it has a bit to do with penis fascination and penis envy. It's a beautiful body part after all

 

its normal for heterosexuals to be excited by penises, ogi ogas explains this in a "billion wicked thoughts" which is why trans porn is on the up

 

I totally agree with this. It's perfectly fine to like guys and still be into girls. I say explore it more and maybe with more experience you'll find an answer. It's not you're either gay or straight, there are many levels of attraction and maybe you're just beginning/learning to discover them like me.

 

I'd say you just haven't met the right guy.

Since it seems that its totally out of the question for you to find males attractive in the looks department. It may just be that you have a physical attraction for males, rather the male physique. (Particularly the penis)

Most of the straight guys that I know bang girls that are not so appealing and even they admit to that. Even so, they say "pussy is pussy" (forgive my french) and that they are just looking to get laid.
My point is you're still a guy and even in you bi situation, you're just looking to get laid, regardless of what your same sex partners may look like.


The possibilities that you are young, curious and are just trying to experiment, would explain a lot. Penis curiosity is famously common with adolescent boys and is fairly normal.

 

Have you though about a balaclava

 

I know that this is a old post, but i feel exactly the same thing, Frosty guy.

 

From other forum which had the same question.

There is possibility that you like guys (but you just like a particular face or type of guys) since there was this gay who realized that he was gay later in life, but at the beginning he only liked penises and not the guys.

There is also possibility that you might be heterosexual with penis-fetish since there was also this guy who was heterosexual but just had a fetish towards penises (he did experiment in his life).

 

Yeah I can relate to this. I'm homoflexible or bisexual homoromantic. I have lesbian on my profile though because I have a strong preference for women, and I feel like saying I'm bisexual is misleading because I am not interested in relationships with men.

 

Imy the same way. Like the dick and curious to bottom. But no love or romancrice attraction towards men. I consider myself bi with a preference towards women.

 

Jep! I'm in the same boat... I explained my story here: https://forum.emptyclosets.com/index.php?threads/30yo-and-still-confused.466888/
Go check it out. Mybe it helps...

I am still very confused with this situation and i tend to think that i could be gay... You said you're kind of a macho guy. Could it be, that you have a very strong internalized homophobia (i think that it's the case for me).

What do you think about vaginas? Not the women in general... just the vagina.
What what are you thinking about when you masturbate? Women? men?


Ou... i just realized, that this post is reaaaaly old. I still post this... maybe it helps another guy :-/.

 

I had a 2 year sexual relationship with my first top, we never kissed, he didn't want to, and I was good with that until the second time a later top stuck his long tongue deep down my throat, the first time shocked the hell out of me, I came back a second time and the rockets flew. what I'm trying to say is you can suck and bottom for a guy and never kiss him, but you might be surprised the second time.