Personally, I like them scared a bit (like in a sense of still exploring and kind of timid),shy, polite, romantic, good singers, but strong and intelligent personalities that develop rapidly. I don't want someone to control, nor someone to control me, but instead someone who I could grow older with and explore more. a partner who can teach me and learn from me how to love. and I like it to be secret for some while. I get turned on by people that are in the closet and are kind of depending on me to help them slowly crawl out. and I like guys that were in sort of denial for some time. defiantly guys that were with women before and I can be there first gay relationship. trust I guess is one of my biggest turn ons. what things turn you on in a person's personality? I want to know all about it. whats your ideal love scenario?