A QUICK SUMMARY, for those of you who don't understand: The moderators are NOT saying that you cannot identify as a certain label. Honestly, I don't get why so many people on here are worked up. :/ It would be a disservice to any questioning people on here to tell them that certain identities and sexualities have evidence to back them up and thus are "fact", when, in fact, the label is only used by a small number of people with NO EVIDENCE to back it up. That being said, EVERYONE ON EC is entitled to feel respected, but when the moderators and administrators are providing information to people, it will not be based around their opinions, rather the facts and evidence given thus far by SCIENCE. If this bothers you, then don't ask for information from this site, but people on EC are guaranteed the right to be given reliable information. As I said, it would be troublesome if someone who was questioning if they were gay or not came on here and was told they were "graysexual" but did not know anything really about the label or that it has no basis in science. Now, I personally don't label my sexuality too often, but when I do, I just go by "bisexual" because it's easily understood by people. That's just me. You are free to do as you please, but yeah, the moderators will not lie to you and tell you that a sexuality like that has evidence surrounding it or is anything more than an expression of a pre-existing sexuality, really. Now, no matter what pronouns you use on EC, you should be respected and everyone will try to use them, I'm sure, and nobody will tell you that your sexuality or gender identity is WRONG, but... The moderators and administrators cannot provide you information that is not factual. That should be understood.