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Lesbian?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Lesbianish, Sep 16, 2017.

  1. Lesbianish

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    For almost 5 years I was certain I was a true lesbian. Now that I'm starting college, I have been exposed to different types of people, that being trans men; men who were born females (if I'm using that term right). Anyway, I'm starting to get feelings for this trans guy I met, or at least I think I am. Does this change my sexuality? I have always been somewhat attracted to people more feminine. The thought of me being with a man didn't sound right, being with a feminine trans man sounds good actually. Any thoughts? I may be stupid for asking this, but I'm just curious. And please don't take anything I said the wrong way, I'm just here seeking advice.

    Thank you!
     
  2. Ldt0791

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    Hi. I am new to this. I have been questioning myself for a while. Im 26. I have always dated guys in the past but never explored my full sexuality. I am currently engaged and we have two children together. I am almost always hesitant to talk to him about me as myself because of how he might take it. What do I do??
     
  3. Jenny173

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    I honestly don't think it changes your sexuality. Although they are men they were still born female and maybe that's what you are finding attractive.
     
  4. Islanzadi

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    The label you put on yourself shouldn't restrict you from following your feelings :slight_smile: Plus, from what you said you seem to be attracted to feminity, which in fact doesn't invalidate your sexuality.
     
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