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Lesbian not bi? Need friends

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by KateRowan, Nov 18, 2018.

  1. KateRowan

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    Hi...
    I’m looking for female friends that are bi or lesbian. This is my first post.. I just joined. I’ve always considered myself bi-.. I’m realizing now that I may have just been letting sociatal norms dictate that. I’d love to chat with some women and really enter the lgbtq community.
    Say hi!
    Thanks!
    Kate
     
  2. Diane05

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    Hello I have never really found labels that important, but I have always known I was a lesbian. I think you should just go with what feels comfortable at the moment, and if that changes then acknowledge it.
     
  3. KateRowan

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    Thanks. :slight_smile: I’ve never really cared about labels either or payed much attention to it either. I’m currently in a relationship with a man though so I’m feeling pretty conflicted
     
  4. Love4Ever

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    Hi! Nice to meet you!
     
  5. KateRowan

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    Hi :slight_smile:
     
  6. KateRowan

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    Thanks for saying hi!
    How are you?
     
  7. Love4Ever

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    Not bad. How 'bout yourself?
     
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    Hi. I also used to consider myself bi and then realized that that may have been different without heteronormativity. I'm not crazy about labels, but recognizing more and more that the label "lesbian" fits me. Like you, I am also in a relationship with a man and facing the conflict of that reality with my shifting identity. If you want to chat more, let me know.
     
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    I'm a guy, but I welcome you to the site nonetheless.
     
  10. Jakebusman

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    Hi I'm Bi but a guy we can still chat
     
  11. Jamie92203

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    Hi I'm Jamie and I'm Bi
     
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    Hey I’m Lana, I also struggle with these thoughts a whole lot because all my life I have liked both boys and girls but whenever I like a boy or a boy likes me, I usually get these feelings of doubt that I use to confuse with actual romantic feelings towards them and after awhile I started questioning if being bi was how I truly should be lableled. But oh god, when I looked at a girl that I liked, it was a whole different story. If you’re questioning or doubting your feelings about your sexuality, don’t be afraid to ditch labels and go with what you think is right.
     
  13. epicoddity

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    If you are consciously aware that you like what you like, there's no real need to label yourself. At least not to those who only seek to know you or what you are into to form judgements or opinions. No matter your identification, Welcome.