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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Shavs1, Aug 20, 2020.

  1. Shavs1

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    hi im just looking for friends. Just people who can relate and just chat to.
     
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    You're definitely in the right place to make friends!
     
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    Excellent!!
     
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    Awesome.

    What do you want to talk about? Coming out? Relationships? Friendships? Spirituality? Pandemic?
     
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    Let’s talk friendship. To be honest I don’t really mind what the subject matter is, it will just be nice to talk.
     
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    Alright. Do you ladies have many lesbian friends?
    I have none. I' don't 'look' like a lesbian and so I think that might be why.
     
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    Or you do but you just don’t know it because she doesn’t “look” like a lesbian, either. ;]
     
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    Let's just talk about anything and everything:slight_smile: I don't really mind.. just talking to other lesbians would be awesome
     
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    Oh Touché.
    But seriously I don't fit the stereotypical view of a lesbian. I love pink. I never wear masculine clothes outside of the house unless I'm doing sports. So yeah.
     
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    On a scale of 1-10 how much do you fit in the lesbian stereotypes (clothes, softball, T.V shows, job, etc)
     
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    I expect that most of us don’t fit the stereotype! :grin:

    I don’t like sports and I’m not remotely good at DIY (unless it’s constructing IKEA furniture, which I can manage).
     
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    The only ways I fit in this stereotype is that I love sports. I especially love American Football. Other than that I can't think of any other lesbian stereotpe I fit in.
    I'm a big fan of Lady Gaga but I think that might be a gay guy stereotype. Am I wrong?
     
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    I think it might be, but I don’t know which artist or music genre is stereotypically lesbian. I’ll have to get out my copy of The Lesbian Handbook. :grin:

    Speaking of clothes...I once bought a pair of Dr Martens. I like boots (in the winter), but this was a step too far. They feel really heavy on your feet! So uncomfortable.

    I do, however, own quite a few pairs of Vans.

    Are you a vegetarian? I’m not. :slight_smile:
     
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    Try Hayley kiyoko!!!! Ooh I love doc martens. Lol I wouldn't say i fit the stereotype. I mean im still in the closet and my family can't tell that I'm gay. But im a jeans and T kinda girl. Love sports especially soccer and cricket and im good with my hands :wink: lol im the handygirl(man) in my house i fix just about anything.
     
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    @mellisa do you watch any lgbt TV shows/movies?
     
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    @Shavs1 Thanks for the recommendation. :relaxed:
     
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    Wow.

    New@Shavs1 like you I am the handywoman of the house I like to fix things that I know how to fix.

    To answer your question. I loved the movie But I'm a Cheerleader, Desert Hearts, and Fire.
    I don't know too many LGBT+ shows. I loved Glee, I like Schitt's Creek, and Call the midwife.
     
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    I am a vegan so yes. Not because I'm a lesbian but just because of the environment, healthiness, and animal rights issues
     
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    haha alot more in common. Uhm lword is the show of shows its thee only lgbt show thats 100% totally "gay" You should give it a shot.. ive watched alot of lesbian movies aswell.