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Lesbian Chat + Curious Friends

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lena2051, Apr 29, 2019.

  1. Wendyo23

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    Can i follow you denial?
     
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    Honestly, everyone wants and likes different things.

    I think you just need to not overthink flirting and when you find the right person, it will come naturally.
     
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    Yeah
     
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    So do you have an ideal woman?
     
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    Personality wise? I guess smart, funny, things in common(I know cliche) fun to be around, patient, understanding, tolerant, at least some of the same views. Body wise I have a thing for curves. I get semi nervous and shy thinking about it and I don't know why.
     
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    I've primarily only ever dated men
     
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    Sorry for the multiple posts my mind can be a freaking machine when I get thinking and this site doesn't allow for editing. I think I want a gentle curvy butch.
     
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    The struggle is real!
     
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    Yeah also welcome
     
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    It is ok, its what the site is here for. When I was first accepting and coming to terms with my sexuality I found it hard to talk about and think about what I liked and it was only through talking to others that things became clearer in my mind. THats not to say that there is only 1 type of woman I would have considered but there was always one that caught my eye more.
     
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    Yeah and my mind at times is always a mile a minute.
     
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    Do you also find that it is both exciting and terrifying all at the same time?
     
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    I hear you. I have the same "issue". I'm oversensitive and I also overthink everything. I'm both amazed and stressed by the way my brain treats every aspect of life.
    But I've always been like this... It's just like my homosexuality, when I grew up I thought that this would gradually go away with time, but of course it didn't. Had to accept that I was born and I will die as an overthinking oversensitive lesbian !
     
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    I think I'm bisexual but I've never really had the opportunity to try out the other side. I get scared
     
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    Yes I do. Like right now my hands are semi shaking and I feel like my voice is quieting a little bit. I don't know what that means. I don't even know what would happen if I had a lady here.
     
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    Yeah. I just at times have fantasies that seem to involve breasts
     
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    The patience is because I've never been physical with a woman and sometimes it can be difficult to come out of a shell.
     
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    Wanna chat some time?
     
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    Yes I too overthink everything and I'm hypersensitive and awkward and I'm a mess
     
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    Well that is probably true but in there somewhere there will be some positives that go along with the overthinking and oversensitivity. They are just harder to see.