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Lesbian Chat + Curious Friends

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lena2051, Apr 29, 2019.

  1. CatWho

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    Hi Ams.... I’m also new to this chat. I’m 45 and not out to anyone yet. I agree it is very isolating to figure this stuff out later in life. I feel like a teen again, all confused and unsure. I’ve only been on here a week or two, but it’s encouraging to chat with others in similar situations. Glad I found EC!
    Hello everyone
     
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    Hey!
    Yeah I'm finding it really helpful. I really thought I was totally alone!
    Great to hear from you!
     
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    Hey welcome to the thread
     
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    Hi there everyone. Not sure how I've not spotted this thread before but it'd be nice to chat. I was also pretty late (I'm 35) when I finally accepted my sexuality a few months ago. I think 2020 is going to be a pretty tough year for me as I deal with what this means for some of my closest relationships, so it's nice to know you guys are here on EC!
     
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    Hey welcome to the thread. We will be here if you need us.
     
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    Nice to meet you. If you need someone to talk to. You can talk to me. I don't have any lesbian friends in my country so I feel lonely. I need someone who can talk with me in the feeling. (I am 34)
     
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    Yeah at times i don't feel old either. I still love my games
     
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    Hey kath
     
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    Me too, I can't see me ever not playing games. My back is starting to remind me I'm getting older anyway so it sort of balances out! ha!
     
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    Welcome to the newcomers!

    I am so sick of being single. Dating sites don't have many ladies in my area. I've talked to some ladies that were a little further away but things didn't work out. I hope I'm not alone on Valentine's Day but it looks like I will be.
     
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    Do you live close to a city? Or is there any LGBTQ+ events happening in your area? I would say I meet 90% of girls at events and maybe 10% through apps. I find face to face interaction and meeting in a natural environment 100% more effective.
     
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    I heard that. What games are you playing? I currently have switch, ps4 and xbone
     
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    I do honestly hear you. I prefer dating sites as I'm awkward in person
     
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    Thanks for the suggestion. My therapist gave me a website with LGBT resources in my state and there are some events and groups but I haven't been to any of them yet. I will have to try to get there soon.
     
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    I am also awkward in person.
     
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    One day you will find a girl who will love your awkward.
     
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    True! I also feel like awkwardness fades with practice. I used to be super awkward in person but forced myself to talk to girls in bars etc... despite it being terrifying and now I can do it without the awkwardness, though I can still definitely get awkward when confronted by someone I find slightly intimidating haha
     
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    Yeah things can definitely get easier.
     
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    I hope so
     
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    I also don't know how to flirt well