Hi, I'm a woman who has been married (to a man) for almost 20 years. I have been attracted off and on to women over the years but have never fallen in love with a woman before. I'm at a crossroads where I realize my marriage is unsatisfying and I mostly think of/feel attracted to women when I imagine something else for my life. However, I have a lot of doubts. It seems like other people in my position fall in love with / have an affair with another women and leave marriages for that. Does it make any sense to leave a marriage to just be alone, and not sure of anything, including your capability of meeting anyone or falling in love? Anyway, looking forward to anyone's thoughts.