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I've thought a little more on coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Annoyance, Jan 7, 2021.

  1. Annoyance

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    So I took your guy's advice and thought more about who to tell first. I have this friend who I can trust and I think I'm gonna tell her first and maybe a few other friends. I know where I can go if everything goes bad, don't think it will but just in case. Do you reckon I should do it or should I not?
     
  2. silverhalo

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    Well nobody can make that decision for you but it sounds like you have given it some thought and made a plan. I think the best judge of these things is does it feel right and is it something you feel like you want to do. If the answer to that is yes then I think its a good thing.
     
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    Ok thanks
     
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    Annoyance.....@silverhalo is right...you are the one who has to make that choice. I'd like to suggest one thing first (if I'm not too late :old_smile: ). Sit down and make a list of the questions that you might be asked when you come out to someone. Think carefully through them and then write down answers. Being prepared like that will make a difference when the inevitable questions start. You will be perceived as much more serious.
    .....David :gay_pride_flag: