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Is this weird?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Ayla22x, Oct 25, 2021.

  1. Ayla22x

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    I struggle to go on dating sites due to me being judged for Being Bi-sexual, I also find it hard to go on dates with men and women when I have nothing to say as they may not know or even suspect I am Bi. Is it weird I get scared to ask them? especially men I get scared about going on dates.

    I do like going on dates with both genders but mainly men, I aren't straight as I have had sexual intercourse with a female so i know i am Bi. I am proud to be bi but it is scary when only a small amount of my family know that i am bi. I got judged for being bi so i am sort of nervous for making this thread. Like, I turn 21 in 2 weeks and I am shitting it as i want to go clubbing and what if i go home with a male like does that still class as being Bi? it weird, I like women for kissing and the lovey dovey side of the feelings then i like men for the more intercourse part but i like both for the same things it is so confusing ahhh

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    I wanted to say sorry if i was ranting and went on forever
     
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    No it's not weird, especially if you have been judged before for being bi, so I see why would you be scared and especially because, if you don't know how the persons attitude towards bi sexuality is like, then of course it's scary.

    Yes, you still class as being bi, if you feel like you are one. That's all up to you to decide.

    Not weird at all. I feel the same way. I have stronger attraction to men, than women and women are softer, than men and I see why you like to kiss with women more.

    One good thing about being bi is, that you don't have to limit yourself to one gender.
    Sexuality is confusing, but it will get clearer, if you date more people.

    It's okay to rant. Don't worry.
     
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    this has helped so much thank you so much :slight_smile:
     
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    You're welcome. Glad I could help.
     
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    i just thought i was doing something wrong liking both genders and doing different things with two genders was bad so thank you so much makes me feel more alright to keep doing what i please!

    Plus, I find women are passionate for different things then men as i said i like women for different reasons to men but i am still Bi even thought it is weird what i like!
     
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    There is nothing wrong in it. Keep it up. Women are different from men, so yeah, keep it up and don't mind what others say that much. In the end, only you decide what is best for you.
     
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    yeah true