I've not told my opposite-sex partner anything yet, which is mostly because I've been financially dependent on him for a few years. That should be changing soon, but it still doesn't feel like there's ever going to be a good time to tell him. Our lives are so entwined that we'll probably need to live together for several months before we go our separate ways, and we're going to need to keep functioning together in that time for our daughters sake. I have visions of it being a horrible few months, and my partner making things really hard work. I might be doing him a real disservice in saying this, but I can't help but think of the worst case scenario. I think it might make those few months easier if I ended it due to our relationship issues, rather than my sexuality. What are other peoples experiences or opinions? Did you plan to have somewhere to go? Do I need to be prepared to move out quickly?