So I've been seeing this girl for a little over a month now. We are pretty much inseparable. We talk and text several times a day. We see each other about 4 times a week. She broke up with her ex about 5 months ago. But he recently started messaging her and then once again he disappeared on her. She wants all of my attention. She gladly goes with me everywhere. I do so much for her, always picking things up at the store for her, taking out trash, buying her food and sometimes dinner and dates. But our relationship is so platonic and i want more. I tried to kiss her the other night and she hid under her jacket. She said it wasn't a rejection but a not right now. She says she is confused and doesn't want to jump into the deep end as she did that before and got burned. She says her heart has a hole because of the last relationship and him contacting her again and dropping her. She never got closure. It sounds like she wants a relationship with me just not right now because we both aren't ready for that yet, I just want to date. I am still living with my ex. I told her I wanted to date others and she said she doesn't want to hold me back. I need the physical piece that she can't give me right now. Yet when I told her I might have a date soon she gave me a sad pouty face. I know she really doesn't want me to date. I have feelings for her and really don't want to date anyone but her but I crave the physical touch. I know she is loving my undivided attention but it's hard to keep up when I want more. I sometimes feel like she's using me for all the attention because she won't give more. Am i being selfish in dating others? Should I wait for her or should i move on?