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Is it ok?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Nic2552, Apr 16, 2021.

  1. Nic2552

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    I don’t know if this is normal or not ?Maybe I’m overthinking because this never happened to me and I’m in a gay relationship. BUT.. my girlfriends sister grabs, smacks my ass and she’s said before when I was getting undress to change into pjs she’s seen my ass naked which I don’t remember how..maybe I’m overthinking. Today she made a comment how she seen my tits. Every time she’s drink she would joke about threesome or question how she can’t imagine herself going down on a girl.Shes never been with a girl. She talks to guys and have does kids. Thoughts? Should I be concerned?
     
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    That’s not ok, which I think you probably know. Nobody should be grabbing any part of you without your consent or making inappropriate comments either.

    I wouldn’t worry about questioning her sexuality though, that’s her issue. I would focus on addressing her massively inappropriate behaviour.

    Have you directly spoken to her about it? If so, what did she say? Is your girlfriend around when she makes these comments?
     
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    I agree that this is entirely inappropriate. If anyone touches or even talks to you in a way that makes you uncomfortable you have the right to tell them so and to tell them to knock it off. Do not even worry about being rude in doing so, she is the one who is being offensive.
     
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    Nic2552.....You're not her property. Let her know that it's hands off! :old_mad: You can try to low-key tell her to cool it, but you may have to be be rather blunt about it if she doesn't get the point.
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Thanks everyone I thought I was overthinking.
     
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    No, you’re definitely not overthinking.

    I hope all goes well with sorting this out.