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is it normal?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Ryder420dank, Nov 1, 2017.

  1. Ryder420dank

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    I am a (I think) straight girl.I get turned on by women and I can masturbate to sexy women.I tried to think about having sex with women but that was disgusting and I did not got turned on no matter how much I tried.So am i bi?
     
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    when you say you get turned on by women is this through porn? Please explain in more detail. Have you ever felt attraction to women in real life? Any fantasies?
     
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    I fantasized about kissing girls on or twice,when I first began to feel sexual urges and honestly got a bit turned on by that,to be honest nothing in that time could've turn me off lol.No I haven't felt any romantic attraction to women.And I mostly get turned on looking at breasts of girls
     
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    Do you mind me asking how old you are? Do you or have you had any crushes on girl friends? Ever wondered what it would be like to kiss them, want to be close to them all the time? When you say you are turned on by breasts is this via porn, photos or real life girls you know?
     
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    I'm 14,I did not have crushes on my friends.I wanted kiss a girl on the her cheeks once cause i thought she was cute (like a kitten not I wanna date you type cute) and yeah its via porn not real life
     
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    Ok I would say you are straight and just a curious teenager. Porn is made to turn you on and doesn’t determine your sexuality. You don’t seem to have any attractions for girls in real life. I would keep being you and see if anything changes as you get older.
     
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    I'll second what Lia444 said. And add that liking boobs just shows you're human... or at least a mammal! I had to smile (in a positive way, pardon me) about those early stages when nothing would turn you off. It's a good sign that you understand how that was (probs still is to some degree, this could be part of the explanation) and can take it for what it is.

    Nobody can rule out the chance that Ms Perfect will walk into your life tomorrow. But there is this phenomenon in our society that females are held up as the "reward", which works (for females) in the opposite direction as heteronormativity. And a beautiful person is always a beautiful person. Look out for the possibility of a girl crush or two, and take care not to break any hearts that are looking for more than you are. You seem nice, and honest with yourself. Those are good things.

    OK, enough adult advice. Be yourself and improve the world!