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Is it normal to get mistaken for kinky?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tre, Dec 2, 2017.

  1. Tre

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    I'm gay/queer or whatever. I'm relatively vanilla. But people seem to think I'm kinky, but straight or bi. I'd say I'm a Kinsey 5-6. On the vanilla to kinky scale I'd say I'm 1 or 2. So they pretty much got it backwards. Is it normal for queer girls to get mistaken for kinky when they're just queer? How about guys?
     
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    Tre....No, it's not "normal". However, people tend to make snap judgements based on how someone else looks, dresses, etc. I have no idea if that is the issue in your case! Heck...I'm about 5 on the Kinsey scale (for what that's worth) and no one knows or even suspects that I am gay unless I tell them! .....David
     
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    Why would people assume you're "kinky"? What would cause them to perceive you this way?
     
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    If you wear “edgy” clothes or have certain piercings that could lead people to think you might be a little kinky.
    Other than that I’m not sure.
     
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    people mistake me for a kinky person just by judging on what I wear.
    I admit I do wear some fetish clothing, but it's just for the aesthetics that is pretty much appealing to me. also, what else could you expect from a goth :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    fun fact: I'm not even interested in sex that much.