There’s a girl I know and I want to get to know her better…like as friends, maybe I like her but I don’t really know yet. I feel like I do but I don’t know her well enough yet. And we work together but soon we won’t which is why I want to get her number soon. Because I’m looking for new work. Anyway, we don’t have shifts together much anymore. I was going to ask her for her number in person but it seems like she’s always rostered on at a different time now. And she’s busy at work so I can’t really talk to her when we’re not on the same shift, if that makes sense? So I was going to write a note and just give it to her in passing, instead of trying to talk to her while she’s dealing with customers. And she could read the note in her own time. If we’re rostered on together before I leave, I’ll ask her in person but just in case…is it okay to give her the note or is that lame? Because I feel like it’s more respectable or something if I asked in person but I might not get the chance.
It's up to you. If passing a note is something you are more comfortable with or is more convenient because you might not be able to in person then that's alright. Just be yourself, and do what you would do naturally, there's nothing lame about that.
Notes are the best thing ever I never would have asked out any of my crushes without a note I'm just that shy. for your situation, it sounds like the best option, I wish you luck
Normally, I would suggest talking to someone in person over giving them a note. Since it's difficult for you to see her and she's usually busy at work when you do, there's nothing wrong with passing her a quick note. You could say something like "I miss talking to you" and then give her your number.
