Hi guys, I have recently came out to my friend and recently decided to start and online profile for a relationship. I met a guy online and later asked him out on a date. On the first date, everything went well and it took much longer than we expected, and we kind of hit it off, although I was not that interested. At the end of the first night of the first date, he asked me for "at least a hug" so I hugged him. The second date started well, but then at then as the night went through I felt it was not going that great. We ended up with a hug and scheduled a third date. Our third date, I really started to like him. We went out to a bar, and he drank quite a bit. When I asked him if he wanted to stay over at my house, he said no and that he was fine driving back. I felt like his attraction to me has subsided greatly. I was not sure how I can say that I like him and want to have some sort of physical relationship with him. Do you think I should ask him over text or wait for our next date to ask him if he whether he is physically attracted to me or not? Would it be better if I just stop texting him for a couple of days so that he might miss me? Thanks in advance for all your advice.