Fatherhood is not for me. I'll stick to being an awesome uncle who only spends time with kids at fun occasions like birthdays and Christmas. It irritates me when people try to change my mind on the subject of having kids. I mean, if you actually care about kids, then why would you try to talk someone into having kids if he just said "I don't want kids" ? Say I do suddenly become a dad and then something terrible happens to the child like an illness or an accident? You want me to live with the trauma of dealing with something i didn't even ask for? Thanks for the confidence.