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Introvert/Extrovert

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Kyrielles, Dec 11, 2017.

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Are you more of an

  1. Extrovert

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  2. Introvert

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  3. Not Sure

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  1. Kyrielles

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    Would you consider yourself more extroverted or introverted? I am definitely an introvert.
     
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    Even though I have poor social skills (they're getting better) Im an Extrovert. I was an introverted child, not by choice, I wasnt popular and I had an under developed personality, due to being in the closet. When I moved I came out of the closet and came out of my shell. I love being an extrovert and Im still developing the social skills I wasnt able to develop as a child. I still give alot of backhanded compliments and talk about sex at the worst times, I also dont have much tact.
     
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    I would generally consider myself an introvert. Social interaction can be tiring after a long time, and sometimes I just need some time alone to recharge (otherwise I get cranky and have a habit of snapping at people).
     
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    Definitely an introvert. I can assume the role of an extrovert temporarily...I do so for work every day. But it’s exhausting, and I usually need time to myself to recharge.
     
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    I'm an Omnivert.
     
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    Neither. I think am an ambivert.

    Sometimes I need a while to be alone, but on the other hand I need to be around people the next time. Neither partying hard or being alone for hours is for me, I like something between (in fact I never go to parties, but that's because of the alcohol, I hate when people around me get drunk or are trying to force me a drink)
    Some people who knew me as a child thought about me as an introvert, because I didn't talk much and I didn't have many friends, but in reality I was just very shy and I wanted to be around people, but it was just hard for me because of my shyness.
    Nowadays my shyness is mostly (but not 100%) gone, and I can do more things I actually like to do, like making more friends.
     
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    I'm a pervert. (Sorry, couldn't resist)

    Most are rather surprised when I describe myself as an introvert. That's because I'm not shy. But I definitely prefer my own company, or that of one or two good friends.
     
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    In most situations, I am a quiet and retiring person, I’d never ‘stick my head above the parapet’.

    However, when called to, I’ve addressed crowds of over 1’000 on complex issues. I also have been on stage. Acting is not that hard for me as I’ve probably spent most of my life pretending to be someone else.

    Basically, I don’t have that much of a problem with shyness, unless I have to show the real me.
     
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    There's no denying that I'm primarily an introvert (and the results of the poll come as no surprise as most people who hang out in online communities are introverted), but I enjoy time spent with groups of friends when I get the opportunity. I also have no problems leading a class of students. What I require is ample time alone to counterbalance the time spent with other people. I'm not someone who cannot stand to be around others, but I need to "equalize" it somehow after I've spent time around people.
     
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    Ambivert...? Sorta? Like, I can handle a silent book club or a roaring party with feeling uncomfortable.
    I'm so ambi in every way:
    Ambisexual
    Omnivore
    Ambivert...
    Ambi is in my genes.
     
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    This describes me, though maybe just a little more introverted. I'm generally not a big fan of crowds but I've gotten used to them and can be more extroverted for my retail job, though it is a bit of an effort. Usually I prefer doing things with a small group of friends rather than going to big shindigs and I'll wait a couple weeks after opening to see a new movie as there are fewer people to deal with in the theaters.
     
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    I'm definitely an (social) introvert. I quite enjoy spending time with friends and being around others. Plus, my job is designed for extroverts, but as I love doing what I do, I need to balance all of the interactions, stimulation with time to recover. Depending on how busy my week is, and what I have planned with friends, the weekends tend to be the times reserved for recovery.
     
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    Introvert w/ social anxiety

    I was a lot more social and trusting, as a child, but guess bad experiences left me badly broken.
     
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    I'm an introverted extrovert.
     
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    This.

    I hate socializing, with the exception of family (direct and extended). I only have a handful of friends, who I don't see very often. I am a homebody through and through and prefer as little as possible social interactions. I usually feel pretty drained after socializing, so I try to keep it to a minimum, or restrict it to Fridays or Saturdays, so I can sleep late the following day. The odd times I socialize on Sundays, I usually cope okay the following day, but around 1pm or so, I feel extremely tired and just want to go sleep
     
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    I'm an introvert.
     
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    I realze now that I meant ambivert. I thing I was getting it mixed up with omnivore.
     
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    i look like an extrovert person to strangers because i talk and smile a lot but i'm exactly the opposite.. i could be alone for days and wouldn't care!! i do many things on my alone time and i know how to entertain myself! also if i spend the whole day with people around me i get so tired and i really need my solitude.. i never understood people who never like being alone.. and actually most of the people i know say that they get bored when they're alone..