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Internalized Homophobia and How to Cope?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Love4Ever, Nov 2, 2018.

  1. Jamie92203

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    well I really don't know if he is really accepting but I do know he loves me. He also thinks that since I haven't dated a girl I wouldn't know if I actually feel that way or not.
     
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    Well if he loves you he will learn to accept it with time if he hasn't already. He will love all of you for you and that includes your sexuality. If it helps, I haven't dated anyone, guy or girl, and I still identify the way I do.
     
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    Thank you you really know how to turn moods around.
     
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    I am glad I could help.
     
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    Can I ask a question??
     
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    Sure. :slight_smile:
     
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    So why is your mood on here flirty??
     
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    Lol I just have a flirty personality I guess. My friends and family know me to be that way so I guess I thought it was cute. And I never bother to change it.
     
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    Right now mine should say sad or confused. Because confused is more honestly how I feel right now.
     
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    Okay I was going to but I didn't know If it should..
     
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    Don't be sad you have me
     
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    I hope I didn't make it weird when I was implying I kinda wanted to flirt with you...
     
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    Sorry I was gone for a bit. I had to go and come back. :slight_smile: I'm not offended at all. :slight_smile: Though I am a bit older than you just so you know. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm feeling more positive now.
     
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    I haven't read the reactions yet but internalized homophobia is NOT a character flaw! It is a learned thinking pattern. Thinking patterns can be unlearned and healthier ones can be learned instead.
     
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    Hello!
     
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    How are you
     
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    Fine. How about you?
     
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    Good what you up too
     
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