Insecure about Breasts.

I have the opposite problem. I always thought smaller breasts looked way better on girls and I just didn't get the whole hype with big boobs. And lo and behold, puberty hit and now I have these giant DDs that just won't be ignored. They are way more outspoken than I am. It's taken me years to make peace with them, and now I think i'm finally coming around. I just can't wear halter tops, low cut shirts, strapless things, backless dresses, non-underwire swimwear, running tops without a heavy duty $80 sports bra...

My point is tons of girls are self-conscious about their chests, and we just have to learn to dress ourselves for our own body type instead of wishing we could wear something else or look like something else. If you do want to wear something more chesty, padded/pushup bras can add one or two cup sizes. If you have extreme body dysphoria, you can always undergo surgery, but I recommend you give them a chance before you alter them.

 

I have the same problem and to make matters worse ALL my friends have big boobs
I've always been very insecure about them. I too would also be happy with a C cup! I will need to start saving for the op (!)

 

Well I'm 23 now and the boob fairy still hasn't came lol. Few of my friends say they want a breast reduction, that just feels like a punch in the teeth to me, due to my lack of.

 

I barely have 34A boobies...I have tried to find push up bras but honestly there is nothing to push up. I have been mistaken for a 12 year old more than I can count...my boobs are my biggest insecurity, probably. That and my teeth.

 

I know that feeling (well, the opposite one, I guess.)
I'm going to use circular language to not offend anyone, so let's try to put this lightly…my 9 year old brother has a bigger dick than I do. In the locker room, I see my friends' "bulges," and they're the size of baseballs (wow, this is getting graphic-er by the second) and I'm just amazed that it's humanly possible to have that much…stuff down there. My underwear, on the other hand, is completely flat, and that's why I change in a corner, facing away from everyone.
I did the research once, it turns out I'm in the bottom 1% of penis size for men, and I have a clinical condition known as "micropenis." :icon_redf:

I really don't have any advice, just to say that I commiserate with you.

About the dress, you could stuff your bra, I guess…whenever I know there'll be lots of people in the locker room, I just put a few tissues "down there," it works wonders. I don't go for oversize, just slightly below average. You could try that, I guess…

 

I gotta agree with Krilky. Especially if you are looking at just a couple pieces of clothing like a dress for a special occasion or something. They do make special inserts to give you the appearance of a fuller bust. Honestly, some of my biggest dysphoria is that I have the bust of a 10 year old boy, and my facial hair. Shaving carefully masks the facial hair problem, but the lack of a bust... Even though I wear traditionally guys clothing, there are ways of masking the bulge below (Why does nature have to be so cruel in making that above average size?)

 

Small boobs are great. End of story .

Not really the end of the story, I suppose. But if you need more convincing, I actually prefer small breasts to big ones. I doubt anybody will make fun of you for a 34B anyway; that's perfectly acceptable.

 

34b is a nice size. I was slender with a 34b, then I got pregnant, gained 40 pounds and went up a cup size. Not that I am recommending that, lol. If you are looking for a one time event like a prom dress, my friend wore silicone inserts in her wedding dress, they looked great.

 

i'm a 32c, which i guess is about average, but personally i definately prefer smaller breasts to larger ones.

 

There are some very good bras which can enhance the cleavage quite a bit. A good padded, push up bra that you've been fitted for will normally do the trick when it comes to filling out a dress.

As someone else said you can also use those bra liner things, I do have a glittery pair but find they can't really compare with the shape a good push up/padded bra gives you. Then again I need full support/push, my breasts are a size I'm sort of happy with but their natural placement does not exactly have the oomph factor I prefer.

 

Get yourself a pair of those silicon "chicken cutlets" to wear with your prom dress. Plenty of ladies use them on the daily, but it's almosted expected for special occasions.

I was a 34-36 B up till I was 24 and had my son. The combination of pregnancy and breast feeding left me with 38 DDs... which sounds just huge doesn't it? The shocking thing is they really aren't that big. Our society has such a screwed up view of women's bodies. I think to hit the "ideal" you'd need to weight about 110 pounds and have G cup breasts... which is something I don't think occurs naturally in more than one in a couple million women, and breast implants have become so ubiquitous that most people don't seem to even know what real breasts even look like anymore.

I guess what I'm trying to say fitting the societal beauty standard is a losing game. We're told what's attractive by the companies that make breat implants and make up and meal replacement shakes... millions, hell make that billions of dollars are spent every year to make us hate our bodies. The most radical act of rebellion a woman can make is to love herself as she is. Self love is a revolutionary act. Be a revolutionary! <3

 

A lot of people, including my partner and I, think size 34A-B is quite attractive. I'm in between - measure A, but wear B in underwire. For formal dresses, I find styles that don't require ample cleavage. A padded bra helps, like others here have said. Most importantly, if the people around you think your breast size is important, you need to be around other people.

 

It was like near 3am my time when I sent that post. Really don't know why I said boob fairy haha. If only she was real