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I'm so scared

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    That's the thing Im 16 and I have never hated myself because of my gender or anything

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    In that 16 year life and I have loved my body but these thoughts are making me doubt myself there affecting everything
     
    #21 Jhon1, Jul 22, 2016
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    Yeah. Well, I don't know what to tell you. Just remind yourself that these thoughts will go away, and if they don't, then you possibly could be trans, but I doubt it. I'm sorry if I can't help you anymore, because I just don't understand why you are getting these feelings. There seems to be nothing causing them. No hatred, no experimenting. Maybe you should talk to someone that knows you well and is accepting of you about this. I'm not really any help because I just met you yesterday. Sorry if I didn't help. :frowning2: I tried my best. Here. I wish you luck. (*hug*)
     
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    Thanks so much and you have helped me

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    So at any point d I'd you think you were a lesbian or anything like that
     
    #23 Jhon1, Jul 22, 2016
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    No. I knew my sexuality way before.
     
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    I knew mine at 12-13

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    What's your sexuality
     
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    Pansexual
     
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    So what's wrong with me then and why now I have never had these thoughts before
     
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    I don't know. The exact same thing happened to me. I guess it just happens to some people and not others.

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    Nothing is wrong with you, BTW.
     
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    There is I'm mental

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    How did you get over it

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    And are trans people born trans
     
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    I just weighed the pros and cons of being each gender. Yes. Trans people are born trans. And no. You're not mental. You're awesome.

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    :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow thanks so are you

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    When dose someone usually know they are trans
     
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    If they feel like they're a gender that they aren't biologically born with.
     
    #32 Alexrocks1253, Jul 22, 2016
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    What's the typical age
     
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    It's usually when they can first think about what gender is.
     
    #34 Alexrocks1253, Jul 22, 2016
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    Whrns that lol Ike a a number
     
    #35 Jhon1, Jul 22, 2016
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    Around anywhere from 6-12 I think.
     
    #36 Alexrocks1253, Jul 22, 2016
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    Phew do are you sure I'm not
     
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    Yes. I'm convinced.
     
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    Explain please
     
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    Children are taught about gender roles in kindergarten. Most of them feel like they fit into those genders that they're born in, and some don't. Some are even confused about their gender until like 8th grade! That's how I know. They are taught that stuff and then they fit themselves into either male, female, or non binary gender. That's the best that I can explain.
     
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