Basically. A situation rose today with something I posted on FB that my kids could read (not about this, but something serious). He told me next time I do anything like that to block my kids, because the kids don't want to talk about anything serious with me or anything related to the past, and that I "burned that bridge". He also applied it to himself. I feel I have to give in to my ex because right now he has total control over visitation. I don't have a car or a house big enough to have all the children at. I don't have the money to get a lawyer and challenge him but he has the money to get one and make my life miserable. I was hoping to come out to my children in the next couple of weeks but now I don't know what to do. There's nothing stopping me from just going about my business, of course, but I want them to be part of things, to know what's going on, and now I can't do that. Just wondered if anyone else's ex affected communication in a way that affected your ability to come out to your children.