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If you HAD a choice, what would you choose to be: Straight or Gay???

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MiseryJoe, Sep 4, 2014.

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Straight or Gay if you had a choice to be born as??

  1. Straight

    64 vote(s)
    34.6%
  2. Gay

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    65.4%
  1. kingLaser458

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    I love being bi. Wouldn't trade it for the world.
     
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    I would probably stay being gay. Honestly, my life is pretty good, and if anybody I know has problems with me having a husband someday (hopefully), then they can go wallow in their homophobia for all I care.
     
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    I've said it before and I'll say it again: it's like asking me which arm I'd rather cut off.
     
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    If you where to ask my younger self, I would've said straight. I don't think that way anymore, I love being bisexual!
     
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    I'd choose gay. Its gave me hope for humanity, when everyone in my school found out I was gay literally everyone was accepting and ok with it even the people I didn't expect to be.
     
  6. Water lover

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    In all honasty I would if I had the choice at birth choose to be straight :frowning2:. This is not because I don't like being gay it's because I am lazy. Being in an are homophobic I hate not being able to be myself. I would rather be less lonely and just be able to experience highschool as a normal teen. Not one that is stressed out and constantly mourning the loss of not showing who they really are to their friends but over the last couple years I have accepted myself. I know I gay and I can't change that. Life can be unfair we can't change that I would have loved to be straight but I guess I wouldn't be me then.
     
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    5 years ago, I would choose to be straight. Now, after 5 years of struggling with my sexual orientation, I'm actually more grateful that I'm gay, and have learned to accept who I am. If I had a choice, I'd actually to choose to remain who I am right now.
     
  8. edgy

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    Straight... with the options given

    I'd definitely choose straight over gay, but understand that I'd choose bi over straight. I want to keep the understanding of what you guys go through.

    I wouldn't wanna be one of those "you'll get over it" or "it's an addiction" morons
     
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    I don't care. Whichever would be me and truly happy in whichever instance.

    Acceptance. :slight_smile:
     
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    Although it would be easier to be straight. I like being a lesbian.
     
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    I may not be openly gay, but I wouldn't change my sexuality for anything.
     
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    If I could go back in time I would be gay. I like gay sex better, I like gay porn better, I love kissing guys so much, and at this point in life it would already be accepted and dealt with instead of dealing with the insecurity and insanity of trying to hide who I am
     
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    Touché
     
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    I like being pan'.
     
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    I would choose to be bisexual.
     
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    I would still choose gay because even though it sometimes hurts that I can't just wrap my arms around a random straight guy and kiss him, I'd much rather keep this side of me because being straight would mean no real true happiness for me.
     
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    I would chose to be bi or pansexual. It seems like the best option to me.

    I'm a little jealous of you bi/pans! I still think gays have the most fun though(!)
     
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    I love being bi, despite its drawbacks. However, irrespective of society at least, I think I'd choose gay. I have lots of female friends, but for a relationship, I might prefer being with a guy.
     
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    Maybe if I were younger and not yet understand myself, I would probably choose being born as straight. But now that I know and understand myself better, I cant imagine myself now not being born gay/bisexual. Im standing on this wonderful place because I survived all the hardships of being gay/bisexual.
     
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    I would never choose to be straight. I never wished I was straight. I feel like so much of who I've become is because of being LGBT. I wouldn't even be myself if I wasn't gay, it would be someone else.