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If you HAD a choice, what would you choose to be: Straight or Gay???

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MiseryJoe, Sep 4, 2014.

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Straight or Gay if you had a choice to be born as??

  1. Straight

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  2. Gay

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  1. MiseryJoe

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    I'm gonna make myself clear... The question is simple but you have to answer it in uttermost honest.... Just your personal choice or opinion without any other influences on you...

    This thread is definitely NOT based on unpopular opinion: being straight is superior than being gay, for those who might wonder....
     
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    Another one of these topics?

    While being heterosexual would be easier, I will have to say no. I like my bisexuality, because it increases my chances of a date, LOL!

    Also, it has taught me to be more accepting, of myself, others, and allowed me to deconstruct myself, to the point, I know where each and every piece of myself, goes, and what each and every piece is.
     
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    Fuck this shit. I like being bisexual.
     
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    Yeah, I like being lesbian. I wouldn't want it any other way, even if being straight is easier.
     
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    If I'd offered a choice at birth, I would choose to not bein born in the first place. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    From my current perspective as a gay boy I would choose to remain gay

    From an alternate perspective as a str8 boy I would probably choose to either stay straight or try bi

    From an unbiased perspective for the sake of the question I would probably choose to be bi or pan
     
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    I figured that this kind of thread was already made in the past but I haven't joined EC at that time, so I missed it... LOL So, I tried to make one....

    For those who keep saying I love being gay and it makes me more accepting of myself blah blah blah, I understand your point of view since I'm one of you guys although I might be weak at accepting... However, the question is not asking that... Just try to relax and really search your soul and answer it in utmost honesty without saying things like that... Thank you...
     
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    I've come across homophobes who say that any sane person would choose "straight". I almost want to choose "gay" just to spite them.

    The thing is, I don't hate being gay. My life is fine this way. So I wouldn't choose "straight" just because it's "normal".
     
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    I love having a sexual attraction to Males, I wouldn't want to be 'normal' for any reason, even if being a straight guy is easier in this time.
     
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    I wouldn't really know. That is as honest as it gets.
     
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    This.
    I'm fine with my life as it is, wouldn't want to change it. I've come too far to throw it all away.
     
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    I've worked hard enough just to accept myself being bi, I am not going to disavow that work. You are what you are.
     
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    Sexuality is just a very minor part of me. If I was born straight I wouldn't mind, what straight person wishes to be born not straight? Considering that I'd go for straight - I would still be me, I would still be in the same place as I am right now, just with alot less headache along the way.
     
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    I love the way that I am and don't think that I would have it any other way. Yes, we inherently have harder lives, but it has only made us stronger. Well, me, anyway. Plus, I love the D (lol) can't see myself ever turning that away. haha.
     
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    I literally promised myself to be as different as possible a couple years back, and I LOVE being a lesbian. So no, I wouldn't want to be straight if I had the chance.
     
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    I still would choose to be straight. I'm not sure my answer to this question will ever change.
     
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    I have NO idea what my life would look like if I were 100% straight. Perhaps it would be better, perhaps it would not.

    I DON'T want to make a choice like that. I want to see how things work out by themselves.
     
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    I would choose to be myself. Queer. Weird freaky asexualish pansexuality.
     
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