hey, i have been wondering about my gender for about a year(?) now and i just need some help... idk if im just a confused cis person or idk. well these are kinda like my “symptoms” i would say: 1) top disphoria (maybe) so i am an amab person and i have tried packing my chest and I loved it, but it was the same live i have for having a flat chest, and some days i kinda want a chest; like i will go into the bathroom and stuff like a shirt under a tight jacket and just smile, and wish i could look like that outside the bathroom. 2) i enjoy seeing myself in dresses, sometimes 3) no bottom disphoria at least i don’t think so like i just don’t want anything at all... like no hole no penis 4) i like they/them pronouns a LOT more then others... 5) i want a gender neutral name. 6) i want to wear makeup and paint my nails 7) i enjoy looking feminine but not all the time ————- okay that’s about it... any advice/help would be loved
I'm not as well read with the nonbinary genders (and such) but it sounds like you aren't cis, with wanting a gender neutral name and liking gender neutral pronouns. We've got a forum for that somewhere, like a thread where you try on a new name and pronouns, if you can find it and wanna try that. So you can test it and see how it feels. Hopefully someone who isn't a binary gender identity can come along and provide more insight. I know there's nonbinary and genderfluid and bigender as well as the obvious binary genders.
