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Identity VS. Actions

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BiBoyToy, Apr 9, 2021.

  1. Jlan3825

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    I think that is one of the things that confuses me, having sexual acts with the same sex and enjoying it yet still being straight. Now i can see having sex once and not liking it with the same sex. I understand the curiosity part of it. I dont know, thats just my opinion and what i love about this forum. There is no right or wrong answer and everyone is very supportive.
     
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    Some very interesting topics and viewpoints have been raised and discussed in this thread about sexuality and sexual acts. No matter what we think about what is or isn’t. Who is what and who isn’t. It still basically comes down to needs, wants, desires and how to fulfill them. In that respect I do think that Dr. Joe kort is right about certain issues relating to human sexuality. Having said that, all orientations are valid. And people should be able to be whatever they want to be without Judgement.
     
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    I want to be world empress, where is my crown and scepter? :grin::grin:
     
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    Oops, missed the edit window. I just wanted to point out in what was supposed to be an amusing way that we cannot be what we want. We have to be who we are. I just wish that society and our families accepted or even better encouraged it.
     
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    I agree, do you have a magic wand? This is for your last two posts. Liked the first one also by the way no need for editing
     
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    No, but I sure wish I did! Haha.
     
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    What would you do if you had one? Or what would you change or do differently?
     
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    I guess it depends on what you're referring to. My sexual orientation? my gender identity? Or just anything in general?
     
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    I mean in general and in regards to the world we live in I guess as lgbtq people.
     
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    That would be a long list! Haha :slight_smile:
     
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    Could it be considered a fetish?
     
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    You mean same sex experimentations ?
    I’ve always wondered why mine turned me on so much yet repulsed me at the same time ….probably shame
     
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    Biboytoy have you gotten yourself a boyfriend yet ? I don’t think anything is stopping you right now :wink:
     
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    Of course my experience was similar. Turned on because I'm gay, but repulsed because of shame. It was the repulsed feelings that stayed with me though.
     
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    The shame runs deep … I’ve come to a whole new level of understanding of it.

    my mind even tried to erase those memories a few times , discarding them as if it never happened , “did I dream that or not ?” .
     
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    No, but I wish! I have been talking to a few guys on dating apps but it hasn't progressed into anything more than just talking on the apps, snapchat, etc.
     
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    Great , taking action moving safely , good luck, love is out there !