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I want to come out, but I don't know what to come out as.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by SnixxJuice, Jul 31, 2016.

  1. SnixxJuice

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    So I'm absolutely positively sure I'm not straight. I have definitely had crushes on girls, but I don't even know if I've actually crushed on a guy. When I was younger, I thought I had crushes on guys. However, maybe I just thought of them as nice guys and mistook it for a crush. Also, some people say you can't really know what you are without actually having in romantic or sexual interactions. I guess I'm just afraid that I might be wrong, and someone might get hurt.
     
  2. Stewie

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    Just take it slow, figure it out as you go. If you end up in a relationship just be honest with that other person, it's ok to be unsure and if there not ok with you not having a label to put on youself then you probably shouldn't be with them anyway.