Okay, so I'm 13 and go to a pretty liberal private school. I hate when my friends ask me about what guys I like beause I'm lesbian but I haven't come out to most of them yet. I noticed that when I come out to them seperately, they think I'm doing that because I like them and get freaked out. However when I came out to 4 friends, 1 avoided me and now she's leaving the school (for other reasons I think) and the other 3 initally thought I liked them but then were fine with it. My bi friend says I could talk to the school guidance counselor but I don't know what to say and I'm worried she would tell me to go ahead so that way the school could brag about diversity and so that she felt more satistfied even if it wasn't the right choice. I could ask my mom about it but she's not at the school so I don't know if she could really expect the reaction. I just hate hiding but I have lot so friends and I don't want to mess that up.