So, the coworker friend that I like "J", she told me this morning that she took another job starting in 2 weeks, but that she wants to stay friends with people from our office. Don't-date-coworkers problem resolved!! I messaged her high school friend "S" who works with us, who was the first coworker-friend I came out to. I asked S how straight J is, because I like her, but Idon't want to ask her out if that's stupid. S said that J seems to be unsure of her sexuality, possibly questioning. Winning!!!! I mean, not being sure who she likes is no guaruntee that she likes me, but.... I may not be rejected totally just because of gender?? More likely to get rejected because she is nervous. Though this might not work out, it also might be a really good first girlfriend opportunity, with someone else who is figuring things out. Maybe. Maybe. I hope so. Maybe. .... Ugh, nervous! Gotta be brave.