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I wanna go to a gay sauna!

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Gazza123, May 24, 2013.

  1. Gazza123

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    Guess I've got a lot to consider

    I suppose I just got caught up in the whole excitement side of things that I didn't really consider anything else
     
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    I wouldn't go if your intention is just to meet other gay guys to "chat". I don't mean to stereotype/generalize but 99% of the people there are more than likely there for sex and sex only. Personally if I just wanted to get laid i'd rather go on a hookup site/app than go to one of those places.
     
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  3. Gazza123

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    I'm still confused

    I mean on one hand am like "I wanna wait till the right guy before sex happens" I know it's cliche and cheesy but true. But i dont wanna wait forever. But at the same time I am a guy and I just think what's the harm in a bit fun.

    It's like my brain is split in two
     
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    I guess that would be me then.

    Seriously though, most of the times I go to my local sauna, all that happens is I leave with my pores clean and nice glowing skin. ( Although one of the main reasons that not much happens is that while I go in looking for men, I mostly seem to be hit on by young skinny boys... and they are as unattractive to me as I probably am to you. :slight_smile: )

    BTW, I can't speak for saunas in other areas, but my local sauna takes a zero tolerance approach to either unsafe sex or any form of coercion/harassment. Frankly I have seen much worse of both at nightclubs than I have ever seen at my sauna.
     
  5. Gazza123

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    I have ultimately decided not to proceed with it.

    As exciting as it sounds, in reality it's probably not all that great. It is basically a place where guys meet for sex and guys that are too old for me. Besides sex is a big thing for me, in that I would want it to be with the right guy and not some random dude in a sauna.

    I feel as though being young, slightly nervous in situation like that would make me easy pray.

    So although I may get the urge to just go "what the hell!" I just have to resist it cuz in the long run I know I'd regret it.

    Thanks for all your views on my issue

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    I feel all of this.
    I've been curious about saunas as well. It's probably the hormones.
     
  7. Gazza123

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    Well at least I know am not by myself on it.

    Looking on the forum on the sauna site only confirmed what most people said. The vast majority of guys that go are 40+. Besides sex is a intimate, private thing between two people that love each other. That's what I want, even if it means I have to wait a good many years till Mr Right shows up.