I think I accidentally outed myself to my parents

I'm glad I'm able to give you some support. (*hug*)

As I said, I think it's only fair and just that THEY have to deal with something they don't like now. You've been in that place for years now, so try to lay back and relax for once - You're more experienced at this than they are.

Yes, it's family. Just lying back and relaxing isn't easy.
But you sure as hell deserve it!

 

That's scary! >.< Good luck, stocking!!!

 

Well, don't know that this would help any, but when talking to friends or your father, get attention away from the fact that you're a lesbian and onto the fact that she wants you to be raped and put in jail.

 

Wow, never thought I'd say this, but your mom sounds crazier than mine. I can understand why you don't want your family to know. It's best not to give it away anymore until you're out of their house and avoid any interaction with your mom.

 

Stocking: I’m so shocked that any parent should say “I hope you get raped” but for this to come from a mother towards her daughter is beyond words.

I send you cyber hugs and hope things get better for you.(&&&)(&&&)(&&&)


SGG

 

So you're mother lost her job and is calling you a failure? At least you have a job. I don't even know how to respond constructively to that "conversation."

I would spin it if anyone asks more towards, "I wouldn't ever want to have sex on the off chance I have children because I could never bring them around such an evil fking b." Can I say that here?

 

I know this might be a silly question, but are you able to get yourself out of that house? Do you have anywhere else to go? Other family? Friends perhaps? If you work is there a chance you could save up to be able to rent your own place? I read your age of being 26 so you are an adult and old enough to do as she pleases.. I don't know your reasons for living at home with your parents and am not asking you to tell me, but I hope there is someway that possibly you can get yourself out of there, it sounds like a very unstable home and not a very loving and nurturing environment.. I am so sorry your parents are being like this, sending you big hugs from down under xxx

 

Well, then fuck her. I'd say make it your goal to get your own place. Maybe look for a roommate to share an apartment with. That sounds like a horrible place to be. I still can't get over the fact she told you that you needed to be raped. Sounds to me like she might have been a victim at one point and never got over it. Seems like she has a lot of self-loathing.

I don't even know. You definitely need out of that hell hole tho.

 

I don't have any advice, but I hope you can get away from this soon. Good luck and hugs.

 

(*hug*) (*hug*) I'm so sorry you have such a mother...

..I'm slowly losing my last bits of faith in 90% of humanity.

 

What your mum said was absolutely disgusting. It sounds like your mum is the one with the issues.
If I were you, I would stay in my room and look at finding some alternative accommodation. She sounds like the least supportive woman in the world.

 

I'm so sorry you're stuck in that situation with her. She is clearly filled with anger and hate and needs mental help. I wish you could move out right away because you don't deserve to be treated that way; no one does. You were doing dishes and used "her" gloves and that set her off? I'm sorry, that's just crazy, a lazy person wouldn't be doing the dishes so clearly she makes no sense. Like others said I wish we had a fund to get you out of there and you could live on your own. (*hug*)