Hi there I've been thinking about coming out for quite some time now, but I just can't stop thinking about the problems this could bring. My family and some of my friends aren't okay with LGBT+ people. My mom thinks, they're crazy, my dad thinks, they should be put in camps and some of my friends openly say, they should be killed. So far, I've only outted myself to two of my friends, but I have nobody to talk about all this. I just don't know, if they would ever accept me, the way I am. Even I took years, to accept myself, since I've always been told, that other sexualities and gender identities are bad. I myself am pansexual an bigender. If this goes wrong and I get into trouble, it would totally destroy me. I don't earn enough money to stand on my own legs and I've recently got a new job, which turned out to be horrible. Have any of you been in a similar situation and have any kind of advice for me? Having some people to talk about all this, would really mean the world to me. Wendy
Oh my gosh, this situation seems terrible. I feel so bad for you. If you look online there could be some therapist-text numbers you could find and just talk to them about how you feel. I can’t exactly relate to your situation, but I am trans* and not out yet so we at least have that in common! If you don’t want to contact a lgbt+ therapist you are always free to PM me to talk. I hope this helped in some way or at least made you feel better. <3, BiDragon
